I don't think they'd want me back! There's no way I'd keep my mouth shut about all the untold scandals regarding the dubs. And the elders probably realise that. Which may be why I never here from them - even after that recent "loving" reactivation WT study article.
I was at a jw funeral recently and that was enough sales pitch for at least a year! Another brother in the same cong has just died but I physically can't take returning there again so soon!
If they do bring about this notion of DAing inactive ones, then I'll still speak to my in family. If they don't want to talk to me, or see my son growing up, then that's on them. As much as I love them, I'm not walking on egg shells for their sake anymore.